As recipients of God’s persistent grace, we are mandated to reflect His character, not react according to our old sin nature. This includes how we handle our enemies—those who hate us, attack us, and slander us. The Lord Jesus Christ said, “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you” (Luke 6:27-28; cf. Matt 5:43-48). Elsewhere it is written, “Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse” (Rom 12:14). Peter echoed the same command: “Do not return evil for evil or insult for insult, but giving a blessing instead” (1 Pet 3:9a). No excuses. No rationalizations. Revenge, retaliation, or payback are all off-limits. We are told, “Never pay back evil for evil to anyone…Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,’ says the Lord” (Rom 12:17, 19). God sees everything and is “the Judge of all the earth” (Gen 18:25), and He “is a God who judges on earth!” (Psa 58:11). Sure, we want justice—that’s normal—but we must stay out of His courtroom. We must trust the Lord to administer justice in His time and in His way. And He will, for “it is only just for God to repay with affliction those who afflict you” (2 Th 1:6). Meanwhile, our marching orders are non-negotiable: “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Rom 12:21). We are to stick with God’s plan and walk by faith and not feelings.
Loving our enemies doesn’t mean walking around with a target painted on our backs. God commands us to operate in grace and truth, but He also calls us to use sanctified reasoning. Jesus said, “be shrewd as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matt 10:16b). Even the Lord Jesus Christ, who embodied perfect love, avoided unnecessary conflict. Twice we are told that Jesus “hid Himself” from hostile crowds who sought to harm Him (John 8:59; 12:36). His withdrawal was not based on fear but on divine discernment. On other occasions, Jesus defended Himself verbally, silencing His critics with truth and exposing their hypocrisy (Matt 22:15-45), so that afterward, “no one dared to question Him anymore” (Matt 22:46b). Paul followed the same pattern as Jesus. Sometimes he slipped away quietly, as when he evaded a plot against his life in Damascus (Acts 9:23-25). At other times, he stood his ground. He leveraged his Roman citizenship to protect himself from illegal abuse (Acts 22:25-29) and ultimately appealed to Caesar when corrupt officials refused him justice (Acts 25:10-11). Trusting God’s justice never meant surrendering good judgment. Yet even in these situations, Paul, like Jesus, refused to hate his enemies or take personal revenge.
Take Alexander the coppersmith as an example. Paul wrote, “Alexander the coppersmith did me much harm; the Lord will repay him according to his deeds” (2 Tim 4:14). Paul remembered his encounter with a hateful man, but he did not carry hatred; rather, he turned Alexander over to the Supreme Court of heaven and, at the same time, wisely warned Timothy, “Be on guard against him yourself, for he vigorously opposed our teaching” (2 Tim 4:15). Love warns others of potential danger in order to help them avoid unnecessary harm.
In summary, we live in a fallen world filled with hostility and injustice, and God calls us to a higher standard—one grounded in His persistent grace and governed by His perfect justice. We are never to repay evil for evil, nor allow hatred to fester in our hearts. Instead, we are commanded to love, bless, and pray for our enemies, trusting the Lord to settle all accounts in His time (Luke 6:27-28; Rom 12:17-21). However, biblical love is not synonymous with passivity or gullibility. Like Jesus and Paul, we must walk wisely, discerning when to avoid conflict (John 8:59; 12:36; Acts 9:23-25), and when to take lawful, prudent steps to protect ourselves (Matt 22:15-45; Acts 22:25-29). Love does not erase common sense; it refines it. We are called to be both gracious and strategic, forgiving without becoming fools, praying without abandoning prudence, and standing firm without being overcome by bitterness. As we follow the example of Christ, who is “full of grace and truth” (John 1:14), we live as lights in a dark world, representing the One who loved us when we were yet His enemies (Rom 5:8). Let us therefore love well, walk wisely, and leave the matters of justice to the only One perfectly qualified to judge (Gen 18:25; Psa 58:11; Rom 12:17, 19).
Dr. Steven R. Cook
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